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What I Learned in My First Month of Blogging

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I’ve been wanting to start a blog for years. I always feel like I have so much to share and get frustrated by having to wait for other people to say “yes” in order to share it. I’ve even sat down and started one a few times. I would write a couple of posts, feel lost, search the internet for answers, and end up overwhelmed. And then I would stop.

This time around, two outside factors made me extra determined. The first is that I got some big “no’s” from organizations that I really wanted a “yes” from. The second is that I became a mom. And I realized not only how precious my time was with my daughter, but how important it was that I set an amazing example for her.

I’m just over a month into my current blogging adventure. There has been a lot of ups and downs, but I still feel as passionate about it today as I did the day I started. In fact, I often have to force myself to close my computer and do other things! I’ve also picked up a lot of valuable information along the way. To help other bloggers who are just starting their journey – and to remind myself of how far I’ve come – this is what I learned in my first month of blogging.

Finding the Right Niche is Super Important

I originally started a blog that was in line with my day job. It’s a work I love and I thought I could easily turn it into a website where I offered tips as well as a consulting business. The idea came together really easy but every time I sat down to work on it, it felt like work. I had a really hard time sitting down and doing anything, always preferring to do something else.

Based on a class I was taking (more on this later), I decided to also start a travel blog. Traveling has been a passion of mine since I took a job as an au pair in Florence Italy when I was 19 years old. I didn’t get married until I was 34 and spent most of my 20s and early 30s traveling the world. When I did get married, my husband was excited to join me on my adventures, and we’ve had several amazing trips. I’ve always loved telling my stories and sharing the tips I learned, and I thought it would be a fun creative outlet.

That blog – which is this blog – is the one that I can’t stop writing. While it is not the obvious choice, it is the one that makes me happy. Which means that, for me, this is the one that I need to focus on.

Me in Florida

It Can Become All Consuming

Finding the niche that you are passionate about has a bit of a downside. Not only can I not stop working on my blog, I can’t stop thinking about it. I’ve lost hours of sleep as I lie in bed with ideas running around my head. I’ve found that I have to have my phone nearby so that I can jot down my thoughts, otherwise they won’t leave me alone.

I also find that I have to be really careful about taking breaks. I originally planned on only working on this when my baby daughter was sleeping. She’s almost 5 months now and is in the cutest stage, of which I don’t want to miss a moment. But I’ve found that it’s been too easy to let the work creep into her awake periods. It’s also been too easy to let my other duties slide (like cleaning the house…).

There Is So Much to Learn

I was attracted to blogging because of the writing aspect. It’s one of my strengths. But blogging is so much more than writing posts. From setting up your website, to making sure everything is compliant, to creating a social media presence, there are so many different things that go into making a successful blog. It’s like that old tree falling in the forest conundrum: if you write a post that no one ever sees, are you really doing a blog?

Speaking of social media, you can find me on Facebook, Instagram, Pinterest, and Twitter!

It’s Important to Get Help

As I mentioned before, I’ve had a few false starts as a blogger. As I was contemplating starting a new one, I knew that I needed some help. I didn’t want to waste hours and hours of precious time searching the internet to learn the basics of blogging. I wanted to spend those times actually blogging. So I searched for a teacher. A mentor. Someone who could show me the ropes and get me up and running fast.

There are a lot of them out there. Many bloggers are taking the time to share what they have learned. After researching and interacting with several of them, I chose to take the Blogging Blastoff course from Heather and Pete Reese from It’s A Lovely Life. There are several reasons I chose them:

  • Heather and Pete have a Facebook community of new bloggers, which is full of helpful (and free) information.
  • They offer a free 5-day crash course to get your blog up and running. Taking that step and doing it was, I found, one of the hardest parts. But they give you the information you need to have the confidence to do it.
  • In both the crash course and the Facebook community, there are lots of videos of Heather and Pete, which means I got to know their personality. They also interact frequently with the bloggers through messages and comments. It was very easy to see that we were a much better match than any of the other bloggers that I had interacted with.
  • I found the information valuable enough that I took both their 30-Day Blogging Blastoff Course and their 21-Day Travel Blog Blastoff Course. These were the best decisions that I made all month. Both of these courses were chock full of valuable information. Each day I was walked through a lesson and an assignment that taught me how to set up my blog correctly, how to create blog posts that would be found, how to use social media, and how to find the best opportunities to monetize the blog. It was, as the name suggests, something that blasted off my blog. I’m so much further along than I ever would have been if I had tried to figure this out myself. Which has given me the confidence to believe that I will be able to attain all the goals I have.

Beach in Florida

You Need to Take A Breath

With all the information I learned through the courses, it could have been easy to feel overwhelmed. And, in truth, sometimes I was. I always want to be 100 steps further along than I am. I have to continuously remind myself that this is a marathon, not a sprint.

This requires that I stop and take a breath. Instead of trying to everything all at once, I am choosing a few things to focus on that will have the biggest impact. Which, right now, means making sure that the foundation of my blog is solid. Maybe one day I will have 10,000 Pinterest or Instagram followers. That will be awesome. But for now, I need to do first things first.

You Need to Find Your Tribe

No one understands the ups and downs of blogging better than other bloggers. Finding and following other bloggers on social media has been super helpful. Not only do I learn from them every day, but I am inspired by them. It’s a warm and welcoming community that does many things to help each other out.

And lastly…

You Need to Celebrate All the Little Wins

My blog post was viewed 100 times. I had a pin shared on Pinterest. Someone liked my Facebook page. A reporter wants to share one of my stories. All of these little wins build up to big wins. Each one lets me know that I am doing the right thing.

Are you a blogger? Share something you’ve learned during your journey in the comments below!

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What I Learned in my first month of blogging


  • Tina

    Getting up and running is hard work. I’ve had a blog for about 2 years and probably made 5 posts up until last month. Now I’ve been really focused, publishing 2 posts per week, getting my email going, figuring out what SEO is, etc. I wish I could do this full time but there is that thing called a job that gets in the way.

    • Janine

      I hear you! Balancing it amongst all your other responsibilities (especially your day job!) is one of the hardest parts.

  • Jocelyn

    I agree with all of these! Especially finding your tribe. It’s so important to have a support group of some sort that understands what you’re doing. Keep up the hard work, your blog looks great!

  • Verla

    Loved reading your reflections. We share them all. Other bloggers really do help. As you say, it is up to each of us to protect ourselves in the process, Glad you found your niche. Me too. Makes such a difference – things seem to unfold in the right way.

    • Janine

      It’s a little overwhelming how much there is to learn. Every time I think I got the hang of something I find there is more to master.

  • Gail

    I have to keep reminding myself that it’s not a sprint but a marathon too!!!! Want to get more content up too while building social media which is tough!

  • Christa

    I couldn’t agree more with taking a breath and finding your tribe. It’s just so much work and often it feels like shouting into the void. I love this post and your blog. Keep it up!

  • Ina @ Crafty For Home

    You did amazing job, and accomplish so much things in the first month of blogging, that is incredible. I blog since 2009 but I didn’t focus for what I was doing. Now I am serious about this industry, and realize there is so much work involve, the never end learning, deadlines, technical stuff, and so on. Group/tribe/community help a lot to keep us going!

  • Rosie

    I agree that you have to find something you are passionate about. I originally started my blog as a lifestyle blog that was going to be about filling time with memories and activities, and being a teacher, I wanted to put an educational spin to it. Now just 5 months in and I have found a different journey that my teaching experience is leading me. I have began an ecourse and I cant wait to get it out there.

  • Tina Tuszynski

    You have done a great job! You are so right, we have to celebrate the little milestones. I feel like I wanted to start a blog for so long, but put it off. Now I’m thrilled that I’m writing it regularly and networking with other bloggers. And I am so thrilled that I figured out how to do technical things like adding a comment box on WP, lol. We have lots of great things ahead of us!!

  • T.M. Brown

    I love hearing that others are gaining so much insight from this course! It has been a tremendous help to me and I agree ~ it’s not easy, but finding your tribe does help!

  • Tara

    Thanks for sharing! I’m in the same boat, and have felt basically all of the things you described in this post. I definitely agree that we need to celebrate the little wins!

    • Janine

      Congrats on finishing your first two weeks! That’s a big accomplishment. There is SO much to learn, but just take it a day at a time!

  • Divya Saggar

    This is an amazing post. Thanks for sharing your journey…so inspirational. I have to say – looking at your website and follower ship, no one can say its just been a month for you…you look sooooo refined and experienced. 🙂 I just started 2 weeks ago, still taking the baby steps and I would be elated to accomplish this much even in a year’s time. There is so much to learn and do, am always pressed for time now and so overwhelmed. Only thing I resolve every single day is – DON’T QUIT! I have joined the blastoff courses by Pete too!

    • Janine

      Thank you so much! I really appreciate the boost in confidence. It has been a long road but it is getting better everyday! Congrats on starting your blog and for all the baby steps you’ve already taken. You’re going to get there!

  • Sharon

    I needed to read this right now. I have only had my blog up for a month, too. I have to keep remembering to focus on one thing at a time and celebrate the little wins. Thanks for the reminder and glad to hear how other new bloggers are doing. Thanks for the article.

    • Janine

      You’re very welcome! I’m so glad that it was helpful to you. Congrats on starting your blog and for finishing your first month! I think that’s the hardest part!

  • Melis Living

    I loved reading this as it rang so true. I have a fairly new travel blog and started for the same reason as you: it’s what I am passionate about writing about. I agree that it is so hard to stop thinking about your blog and I do have sleepless nights over it. Trying to reach that balance can be tough! Thanks for sharing.

  • Jo

    Totally agree how hard it can be to switch off sometime with ideas running through your head. Try not yo let it take time from your daughter though ad she will grow so quick 🙂

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